When in Milan, do as the Milanese do… And if your local guide is Valentina Scambia — a mother, fundraiser for nonprofts and all-around It Girl — then you’re bound to hit up the best, buzziest spots. Here, photographed in her home wearing Tory’s striped canvas dress, she tells us where to go in Milan once the sun sets…

The can’t-miss restaurant in Milan…

La Latteria, a family-owned trattoria — no credit cards here. Must order: meatballs and tomato rice.

And my personal favorite…

Giacomo Bistrot — feels like home.

The local dish…

Riso giallo (A.K.A. risotto alla Milanese).

Best spot for a cocktail…

Ceresio 7, with a wonderful rooftop and pool to take in the sun, especially in the summer. Amazing view of the city.

And the favorite of locals…

Bar Jamaica — a must for Milaneses.

Best place for live music…

Blue Note, where there are live performances of top Italian and international bands every day.

Best nightlife scene…

Plastic — they recently changed the location but not the atmosphere. Funnest place for Saturday nights.

And for a quiet night out…

Nobu Armani.

For an only-in-Milan experience, I recommend…

Triennale Museum, plenty of international and local art shows, with a fantastic terrace for lunch.

One secret only a local would know…

Pasticceria Marchesi — best in the world!!!

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